"Returning ourselves back to a state
of love is our number one responsibility. While it is important to our
children, we owe it to ourselves, as well. We deserve to be living in a
state of peace and calm." -- Heather T. Forbes
There's a reason the airlines tell us to put on our own oxygen masks first. Kids can't reach those masks or be relied on to use them properly. If we lose function, our kids can't save us, or themselves. So even if we would sacrifice ourselves to save our kids, it's our responsibility to put on our own masks first. READ POST
"Ring the bells that still can ring. Forget your
perfect offering. There is a crack in everything, that's how the light
gets in." - Leonard Cohen
Imagine that guilt is like a red light blinking on your dashboard. When you see it, you:
a) Redouble your efforts to attain perfection, even if it’s giving you a headache.
b) Flog yourself.
c) Pull out the wire so it stops blinking, and go have a drink.
d) Thank the guilt and tell it to take a break. Then use the opportunity to check in: What could you do differently to be the parent you want your kids to have, while at the same time being kind to yourself? READ POST