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Happy December 23!

December Parenting Survival Skill #3:
Don’t expect family holiday visits to be perfect. Enjoy them anyway.

We all want our relatives to see how wonderful our kids are, but most kids don't show well in a chaotic, unfamiliar situation. Some tips for a smooth visit:
 
Kids tend to get cranky and stressed with travel and schedule changes, so limit the number of activities each day.
Allow ample opportunity for outdoor play and running around.
Be sure everyone (including you!) gets enough sleep.
Bring healthy snacks, since you won’t be in charge of when meals are served.
Be aware that kids are easily over-stimulated. When he gets fussy, take him outside. If he does dissolve into tears, hold and sooth him but don’t stop the crying. You'll find that after he gets a chance to “vent” he’ll be much less fussy.
Print out photos of the folks you’ll be seeing and make a little book for your child. Their faces will be familiar even though the situation isn’t.
Early to bed and early to rise gives little ones time to explore the house early in the morning while other folks are still in bed. That will make her feel more comfortable even when the place starts hopping. Invite Grandma to see how wonderful she is when she’s rested and not over-whelmed.
Always explain to kids in advance what will be happening and what kind of behavior you expect. Connect with them frequently even if they’re off romping with the cousins.
Don’t forget that family visits can be stressful for you too. Pamper yourself.

What are you doing today to make sure your own cup is full?

May your day be filled with blessings, large and small.