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I get lots of questions from moms about whether they should put their kids on diets.  My training is in psychology, not physiology, but I always advise against diets for the simple reason that they have been proven not to work.  Diets set up a cycle of deprivation and binging that throws off our physiology and actually makes it harder to lose weight.

What do I recommend instead?  Healthy eating and good old fashioned physical exercise.  Insuring adequate physical activity is a constant challenge for most families.  It's so hard for kids to resist the temptation of computers and TV.  The older they get, the more likely they are to be sedentary. 

Can I get your help to come up with a list of ideas to get kids to be more physically active?  I'll start.  Please comment with your own ideas.

1. Require each child to be physically active in at least one way, whether it’s swimming or basketball or soccer or gymnastics.

2. Have physical fun as a family.  Swim. Hike. Play badminton. Go for bike rides. Go for walks in the evening. 

3. For your next vacation, how about going hiking together as a family?  Or planning a bike trip?

4. Ban TV during the week and limit it on weekends.  Kids who watch TV are much more likely to be overweight.  After being in school all day, kids need to be physically active.   They also need fresh air.

5.  Model physical activity.  Play tennis or softball. Take up running. Go to yoga class.

6. Throw out the scale.  How much you or your child weighs is irrelevant.  How do you feel and look?  Explain to your kids that what's important is being healthy and fit.  Kids won't know unless you tell them what’s desirable in bodies is a function of the times.  Show them “Some Like It Hot” and comment that Marilyn Monroe, considered the epitome of female beauty at the time, would now be considered too heavy to be a star.  Point out that we are constantly bombarded with images of male and female bodies at the height of youth and “buffness”.  Nothing wrong with being buff, but remind your kids that the goal is healthy and fit, not "hot."