"My almost 3 year old has been potty trained for a
year. Lately, it's been fun to pee down his heating vent in his room.
This morning, he really pushed me to my limit when I came out of the
shower and realized he had peed on his 9 month old brother. And then
when I put him in time-out in his room (instead of spanking him, which
is really what I wanted to do) he peed in his heater vent again. I feel
like I try to be a good parent, so I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
How much more love and affection can I give him? We'll start a sticker
chart today and hope that works. Because once you pee on your brother,
you've gone too far, and we have to fix this now." -- Anonymous
Clearly peeing on the baby is going too far! Last week we looked at why spankings and timeouts don't really work when the toddler pees on the baby. (If you missed that post, it's here.) Today, let's consider Sticker charts. Tomorrow, we'll explore that all-too-familiar refrain: How much more love and affection can I give him? And on Thursday, we'll wrap up this little series with some real solutions. (Can't wait? They'll be geared toward helping this little pisser manage his emotions, so he can manage his behavior.) READ POST
My Aha parenting moment this week comes from my Pregnancy.org forum. I regularly reprint letters from that forum here (without identifying info) so that more parents can benefit from the answers. You can also join me for a free online chat once a month at Pregnancy.org on Wednesdays. READ POST