“When the second one came along, it took three years before the older one accepted or expressed any interest. There was a lot of antipathy towards the baby. Just did not like the new baby, no interest at all. I was confident that someday they would get on, at least respect each other..... but after three years, I must admit, my trust was beginning to wear thin because I thought, “Are they ever going to like each other?” -- Heather Shumaker, author of It's Okay Not to Share
Today on my Virtual Book Tour, I stopped to chat with Heather Shumaker, the author of It's Okay Not to Share and Other Renegade Rules. This fantastic book addresses all aspects of peer relationships for preschoolers
-- sharing, exclusion, roughhousing, play, emotions. It's on my very short list of essential books for parents of young children.
And today, YOU get to listen in as Heather Shumaker and I discuss all these issues. We talk about Siblings, of course, since we're celebrating the publication
of my new book on siblings, Peaceful Parent, Happy Siblings: How to Stop the Fighting and Raise Friends for Life.
But no matter how many children you have, Heather's wisdom -- and the wise words she gives you to say -- will help you support your child as
he or she learns to get along with other kids.
Some highlights to listen for:
- What to say instead of "Use your words!"
- When your older child hates the baby.
- What to say when a child at the playground says "That child did X to me!"
- Why roughhousing is so important for siblings, and how to make it work.
- What if you can't listen to any more of your child's crying?
- How do children learn to set boundaries with each other?
Here's the link to Heather's website, where you can download the audio:
Here's the link to download the transcript of our conversation:
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Here's what Heather Shumaker says about the book: "Brothers and sisters rejoice! Here's a family roadmap to transform bickering kids into a connected sibling team. One third of kids have a warm caring relationship with their siblings. Read this book and your family can join the ranks."