Tantrums
While tantrums may be normal, many are also avoidable. Many tantrums result from feeling powerless or when the child doesn’t have the resources to handle frustration. Preventive measures can often prevent tantrums. And when you can’t avoid the tantrum, you can use it as an opportunity to connect with your child!
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Managing Your Toddler: TANTRUMS!
Since tantrums are an expression of powerlessness, toddlers who feel some control over their lives have many fewer tantrums. Learn more.
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